A promise, “There will be ups and downs, so many problems. Both of us may want to walk out from the relationship, I may not ask you to be mine, but believe it that deep in my heart you are the nearest person in my life ” - What else do we need from our life partner? Yes, the list is countless, I know. We all expect our relationships to be eternal, so there comes necessity of marriage.
Apparently, marriage is very pure kind of a thing. However the fragments of marriage varies in different countries. In India, marriage is alleged to be an unbreakable bond between two persons. Then what about divorces?
Nowadays peaceful, long married lives are becoming rare. Our work pressures are so high that we are not able to understand the other person’s need. Life always cannot be easy and bright. There is a grey part also. A perfect marriage can be a fantastic stimulus. Togetherness and a faithful company that is what we all look for in a marriage. Marriage is just a further impetus , not something indispensable. A marriage invites next generation also. To secure their future and growth a marriage should be more responsible.
Oscar Wild said, “Each man kills the thing he loves.” The promise should be kept, followed by the marriage will be successful.
Apparently, marriage is very pure kind of a thing. However the fragments of marriage varies in different countries. In India, marriage is alleged to be an unbreakable bond between two persons. Then what about divorces?
Nowadays peaceful, long married lives are becoming rare. Our work pressures are so high that we are not able to understand the other person’s need. Life always cannot be easy and bright. There is a grey part also. A perfect marriage can be a fantastic stimulus. Togetherness and a faithful company that is what we all look for in a marriage. Marriage is just a further impetus , not something indispensable. A marriage invites next generation also. To secure their future and growth a marriage should be more responsible.
Oscar Wild said, “Each man kills the thing he loves.” The promise should be kept, followed by the marriage will be successful.
marriage is an institution which 1 shud only joindey r very much prepared,becoz in dis u always need a Partnar,ublike ny odr institution of d world.
ReplyDeletethis 1 is gud dear....keep it up
actually at earlier times , the world was divided into two parts . 1>the outside world
ReplyDelete2> the inner world or the "family" .
Men used to deal with the former while women used to handel the second . Some men took advantage of it and started misusing it (I hope I dont need to explain what type of..)
this made the girls desparate to struggle their way towards building their own identity . From then started things like non-co-operation , no compromise etc. (though surely there are exceptions) . consequently the later part of the world is getting overlooked due to lack of care or lack of time. Other matters such as being unfaithful betrayal are becoming usual habbits of people due to so much provocations through medias (t.v shows ,ads, I'm not talking bout news ..so chill) , films , westernization ... human beings are getting more and more selfish that they dont hesitate to break commitments for their own necessities and pleasure .. so being a little pessimistic ,I think we should stop ourselves from getting into any kind of relations , cause even after 100s of civilizations advancements of science from learning how to light fire to working in space stations , we still haven't learned how to love .
i am listening to"stuck in my heart" and yes i chose it purposefully while reading the article...
ReplyDeleteya melodramatic for some i admit, but gives you that feel i believe.... :)
yes
marriage has many definitions and the things that matter are different in different culture.for example, pre-marital sexuality is a taboo in some and some dont mind flaunting it..
but trust me, the cultures are much dfferent than wat they appear to be on the tv set.
the essence is commitment and most importantly being one, and the indespensible feeling for each other..
i think people are too rapid to prove that they are better than their counterparts and say-i can find sm1 better who suits me better.
u make da person ur own...nd not own a person.
"is janha me kisiko apna bana kar to dekho... yanha koi paraya nahi hota, bus iss janha ko apna kar to dekho..."
P.S-sorry for da Loooooong bak bak :P
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